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Online, Unfortunately reviews uploads before discovery and provides consent, reporting, blocking, and account-deletion controls.
Last updated August 3, 2026
Anonymous browsing
Discovery shows the post, not the creator’s profile. That reduces appearance-first decisions and keeps personal details out of the initial feed.
Consent before chat
Three reciprocal sparks make chat eligible. Both people must then opt in. A spark never means consent to sexual activity, off-platform contact, or a meeting.
Private reports, immediate blocks
The person you report is not told who reported them. Blocking removes both accounts from each other’s discovery and conversation surfaces immediately.
Offline safety
Meeting someone in person
Stay in the app while you are getting to know someone. Never send money or financial information.
Meet in a public place, arrange your own transport, and tell someone you trust where you are going.
Leave if you feel pressured or unsafe. You do not owe politeness, an explanation, or another chance.
If someone threatens immediate harm, contact local emergency services. The app is not an emergency service.
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Members must be 18 or older.
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